Putting Daddy On
Tom Wolfe, graduated from Yale University
and the author of 15 novels, depicts a relationship between a son and a father
that live a very different lifestyle in the essay, “Putting Daddy On”. It
contrasts the poor and the rich, young and the old, and right and the wrong, which
causes Parker, the father and Ben, the son to lose their bond. Traveling down
to the Lower East Side where only poverty exists, Parker, dressed fancily in
uptown clothes brings a friend to retrieve his son, who dropped out of Columbia
and chose to be a hippy. From a perspective of a frustrated and a guilty
parent, “Putting Daddy On” allow all teenagers in a stage of rebellion to know what
their parents might think. Although Parker speaks to Ben as if he is mocking his
of life, it is revealed in the essay that he understands why Ben is acting the
way he is. Parker also reveals that although he didn't speak to Ben much when
they net, there were not much he could have said and that he tried the hardest
he could. It shows Parker’s understanding of Ben growing up as an independent
and letting go his control over him.
Although
it is not clearly stated in the novel, the audience can be assumed to be the
teenagers and the parents who are under conflicting relationships. Tom Wolfe
achieved his purpose through using various rhetorical devices such as
colloquial language, perspective, and visualization. Using colloquial language
allowed the readers to understand what type of character Parker was. Through
his use of words, we were able to identify his humorous and sarcastic side.
Wolfe’s interesting use of perspectives easily draws the attention of many
readers, because although a lot about Parker and his visit to the lower east
side is revealed, there are a lot of things about the situation that is
ambiguous because of the nameless narrator. However, Wolfe’s use of
visualization of the settings allowed the readers to see the big differences
between the father and the son. Although the author’s purpose was rather hard
to find, through many rhetorical devices, Tom Wolfe did a successful job in
portraying the conflict between Parker and Ben.
Sometimes We Must Understand to Let Go
Parents can’t always believe that they
can construct the lives of their children.
Work Cited
"Movie
Reviews: 'The Nut Job,' 'Big Bad Wolves'" NY Daily News. N.p., n.d. Web. 18 Aug. 2015.
"Tom
Wolfe." Tom Wolfe. N.p., n.d.
Web. 18 Aug. 2015.


